Make your life a field of opportunities

Field of Opportunities


Make your life a field of opportunities; Let everyone know you as a milestone bridge to a long forth struggle; they should call you a support pillar in a drowning sea of hailstorm; they should know you as the last step, most needed, that gave them a dream in their life.You were there to make the difference when one was needed.


These are the power phrases that runs through my mind when I chatted with my sibling. The one I admire amongst the 8 of us in our parents.His actions so often have been full of courage and energy, determination and conviction to succeed, yet it has always been in the wrong direction, so he obviously must be use to failing. Yet he keeps daring in those areas which to me seems the obvious, that he will still fail.I said to myself, that if only there was someone out there in his life to make that difference, rather than looking for connections to facilitate his endeavours,he will just succeed with the first try. It begs the question that, why do we keep failing when we put on our best; we just go around blaming circumstances and people for the reason of our failures and yet we seldom blame ourself. In this piece, the center of my concern is that, we can turn around the blame and just focus on what we did wrong, ammend and continue. In life, life so complex, when it is quite hard to impact the attitude of others , I understand it will not be as hard to impact our own attitude and way of thinking. The reality is, we are often the problem and for many reasons we are just too polite to accuse our own self.There are many pundits out there who will ask, what problem is theirs if they are victimised because of the race of their birth, or simply because of some natural set back? Well I say to you, it becomes your problem because you are pushed by someone to recognise what by nature you inherit is a set back rather than a pride and starter for that great mission that brought you to life. I see in you an opportunity that lies in your natural state than the failure others recognise in you. I say, start changing the view that is most cases depletes the energy in you than sap in from the earth even more energy. You will only reluctantly admit others with thesame natural conditions somewhere have manage to pass these treshold of setback. But remember they have refuse to accept what the world suggest they are than what they they really are.





The question I seek to address here is, how can we really change this misopportunities to opportunities? Well, it is very simple my friends, you will have to reduce your reliance on those you have crown as life support and belief in yourself. Take the new road to freedom and begin the journey. What journey you may ask? Well what of, rather than crowning people as indispensible in your life or giving them praises for what they certainly deserve, yet you would have made it without them, yet others will give you thesame praises. I call on you oh man to leap far pass that line that limits you to what people think you are to what you really are. Only in that pursuit will you really find out who you are and begin the journey to the hall of fame. In my ussual command phrase, I urge you to see somewhere around you and do something about your self than complaining about what is wrong with others. Stop complaining about the systems of things because when it changes you will keep complaining because you are not using this time to plan for better times. I tell you, you father or mother may be quite instrumental to you prospect buy seize not to see what harm they cause. When they make you feel you can not make it without their support. It is same with that friend you can do all for him just because you belief s/he must stand for you to succeed in anything.I do not say reject anyone, but I say, be the leader to drive the results you desire and be ready to blame yourself when you fail. The secret is that you can easily make ammends when it is you than others.

Well I have good news for you, everyman is created to make things happen, you too can be a happener- Just belief in your self and the ability endowed in you by the source, the creator and supreme nature.


Peace